Dealing with Changes in your Sex Life

Niyati Evers and Robert KingIntimacy and Communication, Joy and Resilience, Long Term Relationships, Relationships and SexualityLeave a Comment

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You cannot separate sexual growth from personal and relationship growth. By trying to keep our sexual space ‘hurt and risk free’ we actually create the potential for much bigger dangers over time. Keeping your sex life alive means looking at things that are risky to face AND having risky conversations.

Skills Share on Relationships and Intimacy: What’s Sex gotta do with it?

Niyati Evers and Robert KingEros, Joy and Resilience, Relationships and SexualityLeave a Comment

Red rose on thigh

There are many cultural beliefs about sexuality that influence us. The more we are in touch with the potential of Eros as well as our own Edges and Unconscious bias around Sexuality and Intimacy, the better we can serve our clients.This Skills Share is part of a series focusing on growing our awareness as therapists of:
– Common edges and dynamics around sexual and intimacy issues
– Expanding our lens in working with sexual and intimacy issues
– Exploring our own relationship to our unconscious bias and edges around sexuality and intimacy and how to use that awareness in working with clients

Q & A on Issues around Sexuality & Intimacy

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On October 25 at 6pm Robert and Niyati will be hosting a Q&A on the topic of Working with Sexuality from a Process Oriented Perspective. The event will take place at the Process Work Institute in NW Portland and is free of charge. Although there will be space for real-time interaction during the event, we will be responding to questions that have been sent to us beforehand. Feel free to email us your questions in the realm of sexuality, intimacy and relationships to: All questions will be dealt with anonymously. Please note that this event will be recorded and the … Read More

Faking Orgasms

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mask and face

In this first video, we discuss a question from a woman who has been faking orgasms with the same partner for quite a while and now feels stuck in a pattern she doesn’t know how to break free from. Although you may not be struggling with this exact same issue, most of us know what it’s like to feel stuck between a rock and a hard place: where we’ve made a decision that seems to work for us initially but then gets us in trouble later on. This video deals with the dynamics of how to transform this type of … Read More