In this first video, we discuss a question from a woman who has been faking orgasms with the same partner for quite a while and now feels stuck in a pattern she doesn’t know how to break free from. Although you may not be struggling with this exact same issue, most of us know what it’s like to feel stuck between a rock and a hard place: where we’ve made a decision that seems to work for us initially but then gets us in trouble later on. This video deals with the dynamics of how to transform this type of … Read More
SEXUALITY PROFESSIONALS AND EDUCATORS ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX AND RELATED TOPICS.
In this episode of “CURIOUS CONVERSATIONS ABOUT SEX”, we talk about the topic of regaining trust after abuse, including some very personal stories. Roger from Curious Creatures in Australia has invited Anne Hunter, a polyamory expert and Niyati Evers, a Process Oriented Therapist and Councelor, to talk about the topic of regaining trust after abuse, including some very personal stories.
Past experiences of abuse often reverberate in the present. Knowing that it’s not easy to change our triggers, how can we transform these experiences in ways that allow us to have healthy and happy relationships after having survived abuse? This article will give you practical tools and skills on how to transform the wounds of the past into ways of accessing your power in positive ways and creating fulfilling relationship experiences in the present.
Transforming sexuality takes more than adding in more techniques. If you apply the new techniques with your old ways of relating, it will get stale and boring after a while. The great news is that by exploring both the places where you get a little stuck or bored as well as your dreams, fantasies and desires you can start generating whole new experiences of sexuality and intimacy.
The full and very fitting title of this book is: America’s War on Sex, The Continuing Attack on Law, Lust and Liberty by Marty Klein Ph.D. This is a good read – an articulate, well thought out, documented and impassioned argument and rallying cry for sexual liberty, sexual literacy and sexual consciousness. In effect, it’s a wake up call to all of us who give a damn about our sexual and civil liberties. Essentially, he argues that governmental interference and authoritarian control into our private lives is ongoing and a socio-culturally sanctioned, eroto-phobic war with our most intimate impulses. If … Read More