The Alchemy of Eros: Unfolding Chronic Pain into a Richer Sex Life

Niyati Evers and Robert KingChronic Pain and Sex, Eros, Erotic Role Play, Intimacy and Communication, Joy and Resilience, Long Term Relationships, Relationships and SexualityLeave a Comment

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Sex can be the playground where we experiment with less familiar parts and energies in a safe and consensually agreed upon way. Life is where we then get to express and integrate the parts of us we play with sexually. By aligning the two, sex and life can become an integrated dance, each infusing the other.

Dealing with Changes in your Sex Life

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You cannot separate sexual growth from personal and relationship growth. By trying to keep our sexual space ‘hurt and risk free’ we actually create the potential for much bigger dangers over time. Keeping your sex life alive means looking at things that are risky to face AND having risky conversations.

Skills Share on Relationships and Intimacy: What’s Sex gotta do with it?

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There are many cultural beliefs about sexuality that influence us. The more we are in touch with the potential of Eros as well as our own Edges and Unconscious bias around Sexuality and Intimacy, the better we can serve our clients.This Skills Share is part of a series focusing on growing our awareness as therapists of:
– Common edges and dynamics around sexual and intimacy issues
– Expanding our lens in working with sexual and intimacy issues
– Exploring our own relationship to our unconscious bias and edges around sexuality and intimacy and how to use that awareness in working with clients

Q & A on Issues around Sexuality & Intimacy

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On October 25 at 6pm Robert and Niyati will be hosting a Q&A on the topic of Working with Sexuality from a Process Oriented Perspective. The event will take place at the Process Work Institute in NW Portland and is free of charge. Although there will be space for real-time interaction during the event, we will be responding to questions that have been sent to us beforehand. Feel free to email us your questions in the realm of sexuality, intimacy and relationships to: info@alchemy-of-eros.com All questions will be dealt with anonymously. Please note that this event will be recorded and the … Read More

We Left The Camp Singing

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We left camp singing

We cannot fight toxicity by becoming toxic ourselves. Given the circumstances we are facing, this is the time to live from the place of Eros, to get in touch with an inner source of joy and inspiration that can sustain us, to listen to our muse and find pleasure in our bodies and our relationships.