THE SPACE BETWEEN US

The philosopher Martin Buber said,

“Our relationship lives in the space between us and that space is sacred.”

Our sexuality too, cannot be separated from the space between us.

The quality and atmosphere of the space between us, will determine how free we feel to express our erotic fantasies and desires, our sexual needs and limitations, our wildness and our tenderness.

CREATING AN EROTIC CONTAINER

Sharing our full erotic selves with another human being is an act of vulnerability and courage. If we want to keep our sexual and intimate relationships thriving over time, it becomes essential that we create an ‘erotic container’; an atmosphere and ‘sacred space’ between us where Eros feels invited and safe to explore, play and expand.

To explore the space between us, we start out with a counterintuitive question:

If you wanted to make sure your sex life will NOT flourish or even go downhill,
how will you do it?

Paradoxically, exploring how we’d ensure the demise of our sex life can actually lead to new levels of empowerment in creating a flourishing erotic space between us.

Watch the video to find out more about practical ways to create the kind of erotic space between us where Eros feels save to show up and thrive.