Even while living in the midst of darkness, we must never forget to drink from the well of joy that lives within us. Living ecstatically is about creating experiences of rapture in our lives, where we feel connected to something bigger than ourselves. It is from a place of being uplifted that we can help uplift the world around us.
Transforming sexuality takes more than adding in more techniques. If you apply the new techniques with your old ways of relating, it will get stale and boring after a while. The great news is that by exploring both the places where you get a little stuck or bored as well as your dreams, fantasies and desires you can start generating whole new experiences of sexuality and intimacy.