{"id":894,"date":"2018-03-26T21:11:28","date_gmt":"2018-03-26T21:11:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alchemy-of-eros.com\/?p=894"},"modified":"2018-03-26T21:30:23","modified_gmt":"2018-03-26T21:30:23","slug":"role-play-exciting-now-feels-boring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alchemy-of-eros.com\/relationships-and-sexuality\/role-play-exciting-now-feels-boring\/","title":{"rendered":"Reviving Erotic Role-Play: What To Do If Acting out Fantasies Once Was Exciting But Now Feels Boring?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How can you <strong>revive the excitement<\/strong> you once experienced when you first started <strong>role-playing <\/strong>and<strong> acting out fantasies<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>At first, role play can help us\u00a0<strong>tap into new, unknown or more <a href=\"https:\/\/alchemy-of-eros.com\/our-approach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">forbidden parts<\/a><\/strong> of ourselves and our partner(s). 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