In this first video, we discuss a question from a woman who has been faking orgasms with the same partner for quite a while and now feels stuck in a pattern she doesn’t know how to break free from.

Although you may not be struggling with this exact same issue, most of us know what it’s like to feel stuck between a rock and a hard place: where we’ve made a decision that seems to work for us initially but then gets us in trouble later on.

This video deals with the dynamics of how to transform this type of pattern. We hope that our responses in this video – prepared by both of us together – will give her and others some new perspectives and some options for pathways forward.

Watch the video here